What We’d Tell Ourselves a Year Ago

Looking Back to Move Forward

Reflection is a discipline most leaders claim to value but rarely practise with rigour. The turn of the year offers the perfect opportunity to pause, take stock and consider what hindsight can teach us.

If we had the chance to sit across the table from ourselves twelve months ago, what advice would we offer? What truths did we learn the hard way? What assumptions did we prove or disprove?

At Relentica, we’ve spent the past year helping clients navigate shifting markets, technological disruption and cultural change. Along the way, we’ve also learnt plenty ourselves.

Growth is Uncomfortable – and Necessary

One of the first lessons is that growth rarely feels comfortable. Whether it’s scaling an operating model, evolving leadership behaviours or adopting new technologies, progress often masquerades as friction.

If you find yourself thinking, “This feels too easy,” it might not be real growth. Real transformation demands effort, conflict and honest reflection.

We’d tell our past selves to embrace discomfort earlier – to stop chasing perfect conditions and start experimenting sooner. Waiting for clarity often just delays the inevitable learning curve.

Culture Can’t Be Delegated

Another truth that emerged this year: culture is everyone’s job, but it starts at the top.

In periods of uncertainty, teams look to leaders for cues – not just in words but in actions. When leaders avoid difficult conversations or let cynicism go unchallenged, it quickly becomes the norm.

Our reflection: set the tone early. If you want a culture of accountability and optimism, you can’t delegate it. You have to model it.

Simplicity Beats Sophistication

There’s a temptation, especially in times of growth, to overcomplicate. New frameworks, layered governance, elaborate plans – all designed to show progress and diligence.

Yet the most effective moves we made this year were the simplest ones: defining clear priorities, streamlining decision rights and stripping away needless reporting.

Complexity often masks indecision. If we could offer one piece of advice to last January, it would be this – simplify first, then build sophistication only where it adds genuine value.

Clarity is a Leadership Superpower

We’ve seen over and over that teams don’t stall because they lack skill – they stall because they lack clarity.

This year reinforced how powerful it is when leaders can explain, in plain language, why a decision has been made and what comes next. No jargon. No spin.

If we could rewind, we’d tell ourselves to spend twice as much time clarifying decisions and expectations. It saves time, builds trust and accelerates progress.

Consistency Wins Over Intensity

At the start of the year, we saw bursts of enthusiasm across teams launching new initiatives. But enthusiasm without discipline quickly dissipates.

The organisations that made the most progress were not necessarily the most innovative – they were the most consistent. Weekly check-ins. Routine retrospectives. Steady execution.

If we had our time again, we’d double down on rhythm – the regular habits that keep momentum alive.

The Power of Shared Reflection

One of the most effective exercises this year was gathering teams to share what they’d learned. Not in the form of sanitized reports, but honest conversations about wins, failures and near-misses.

This built trust faster than any team-building activity.

For 2025, we plan to integrate these shared reflections into every major programme. Learning shouldn’t be an afterthought – it’s the engine of improvement.

Our Commitment for the Year Ahead

As we move into another year of uncertainty and opportunity, here’s what we’re taking forward:

  • Embrace discomfort as a sign of growth.

  • Model the culture we want, every day.

  • Simplify before we scale.

  • Prioritise clarity over perfection.

  • Stay consistent, even when enthusiasm wanes.

  • Reflect together, not in isolation.

At Relentica, we’re committed to helping our clients and ourselves stay true to these principles. They aren’t just aspirations – they’re lessons forged in the realities of modern leadership.

Closing Thoughts

A year ago, we were optimistic, ambitious and perhaps a little naive about what was ahead. That’s part of the journey.

If you’re reading this and thinking about your own year in hindsight, ask yourself: what would you tell your past self? What will you carry forward – and what will you leave behind?

Growth isn’t just about what you achieve. It’s about what you learn, how you adapt and who you become in the process.

Here’s to another year of relentless progress.

Relentica